Posts Tagged ‘personal achievement’

Have You Found Your Purpose in Life?

Sunday, January 15th, 2012

Two Paths Diverged in a wood

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When we were young, the purpose of life was very clear—have fun! We focused on being independent, doing things our own way, seeking adventure, and looking for the best in ourselves and others.

And then we graduated from school, got jobs, and took on adult responsibilities. Suddenly, the purpose of our life had more to do with meeting the expectations of others and less about what we wanted for ourselves.

As a result, we start to live more on the fringes of other people’s lives than in the middle of our own. But here is the thing: when we don’t live life for ourselves, it’s impossible to find fulfillment and purpose.

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Empower Yourself!

Sunday, January 8th, 2012

Someone needs to tell the political candidates that personal empowerment is not about power over others. Rather, it is understanding that you are in charge of your own life.

Superman (Earth-Two)

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People who are personally empowered know that happiness is an inside job. They don’t wait for someone else to make them happy and they can take care of their own needs for affection.

You Are Responsible For Your Own Actions

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Do You Lead Your Own Life?

Monday, January 2nd, 2012

Article first published on www.linked2leadership.com

Leading Yourself

We are all searching for answers. The moment we stop that search, we cease to be empowered and the leader of our own life.

No matter what we do for a living, we are all entrepreneurs of our own ideas. The generation of ideas and answers to life’s questions is empowering. It helps us to identify and resolve issues that hold us back personally and professionally.

The Link Between Personal and Professional Success

Successful people understand that it is impossible to separate personal achievement from professional performance. For short periods of time, it’s possible to fool all the people all the time; but an empty suit cannot sustain itself over the long haul. (more…)

3 Leadership Lessons from Genghis Khan

Tuesday, September 21st, 2010
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This blog was published in Linked2Leadership on September 20th, 2010

Genghis Khan conquered substantial portions of Central Europe and China to create the largest empire in history. His story is one of perseverance, mastery, and purpose.

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Life is an Adventure

Tuesday, September 7th, 2010
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A good espionage tale runs the gamut of human experience, from growing healthy hydrangeas in the garden, to a sexy bombshell, to the wrenching scene of leaving behind friends and loved ones. We love spy stories because we love the adventure that comes with these tales.

Adventures are journeys into the unknown, whether it’s discovering spies, exploring new career opportunities, or stepping off the well-worn path of the daily grind. The tools to investigate the unknown are not just the province of inquisitive FBI agents—they belong to anyone interested in expanding their horizons.

Expanding our horizon means being willing to stand on the edge and look into the dark unknown with confidence that when we move forward, we won’t miss the step and fall into the abyss. This can be scary unless we’re sure of our footing.

People often ask me how I could make the abrupt transition from 24 years as an FBI Agent to writing a blog about the adventure of digging down to explore the unknown in our life. I began my career in the FBI by working as an undercover agent. I became an expert on hiding my true identity while learning all sorts of things about the true identity of the people under investigation. I spent over 20 years working counterintelligence and espionage cases. My job was to identify foreign spies in the U.S., neutralize their spying activities, and persuade them to work for the FBI.

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Rattlesnakes and Growing Up Skinny in Wyoming

Thursday, September 2nd, 2010
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A ranch in Wyoming can be a rough place to grow up. I played on a rockslide that had stabilized over the years, discovered abandoned whiskey stills from the 1930’s in rough mountain terrain, and wore lace-up boots to prevent rattlesnakes from biting my feet and ankles. Of course, if it bit anywhere higher on my leg, I was on my own so I learned to be alert. And fast. A coiled rattlesnake can only strike the length of its body so if I saw it first, those lace-up boots could also burn rubber in the opposite direction.

I grew up skinny. And not just from running away from rattlesnakes. Every day after school I played for a few hours before I did my chores, or until it got dark. I walked down the river and constructed my own version of Fort Courage—remember the 60’s comedy show F Troop—from a small grove of willow trees, bits of driftwood, and a good dose of imagination. I found small tree limbs that could be carved into rifles, set up a general store substituting rocks for canned goods, and climbed up to an overhang of rocks that made a perfect lookout for marauding Indians. It was a busy life.

I also grew up with a respect for hard work and a belief that if something is worth doing, it’s worth doing well. I learned there is a difference between being strong-willed and being strong-minded—in a nest of rattlesnakes, one can cost you your life while the other can save it. A strong mind, unafraid of the risks in the unknown, led me from the mountains of Wyoming to the FBI Academy in Quantico, Virginia.

Let me share my rattlesnake survival tactics:

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6th Tip for a Russian Spy Ring: Handle Bad News

Friday, July 30th, 2010
This entry is part 6 of 9 in the series 10 Tips for a Russian Spy Ring
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An image of the FBI making an arrest gets our attention. We sit up a little straighter as we look to see whether the criminal is someone we know—or, for some of us, maybe a relative. We cheer for the good guys and feel good about our tax dollars being put to good use.

Most people go into a mild shock when they’re arrested. It’s a traumatic experience even for a hardened criminal. When the mild-mannered Russian spies were arrested in June 2010, it was unexpected, and therefore, sent shockwaves through the jail cells of the would-be secret agents like a tsunami washes over a beach. It didn’t take long for all of them to plead guilty and settle for deportation.

A sudden shock gets our attention. I call it the Theory of Inoculation because inoculations get the attention of our body’s immune system by introducing a small dose of the disease. This jolts the body into action and antibodies are produced to protect us against further infection. In the same way, an extreme suggestion can introduce an idea that is initially so shocking that we welcome “middle ground” as a desirable alternative.

This is a technique used with great success by retailers, ex-spouses, and terrorists. I ran across this letter and think it gives a perfect example of how extreme suggestions can work in the way we communicate ideas:

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2nd Tip for a Russian Spy Ring: Think on Your Feet

Friday, July 16th, 2010
This entry is part 2 of 9 in the series 10 Tips for a Russian Spy Ring
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We shouldn’t be too hard on the inept Russian spy ring. Maybe their training wasn’t up to the new standards. Or maybe the Russians wanted to see whether U.S. Intelligence Services had lost their touch. We haven’t—the Russians know that now—but as a former FBI counterintelligence and undercover agent, I can’t help but wonder how 12 Russian spies failed to see danger signs all around them. They were the targets of an FBI investigation for over ten years and yet they never connected the dots.

Maybe it wasn’t their lack of training—perhaps it was because of it.

The Illegals, or sleeper agents, spent years being trained by the SVR (the KGB‘s new name). They were prepared to be on the lookout for the usual suspects—FBI, CIA NSA, DOE, and a few other alphabet soups.

They were prepared for the predictable; they didn’t anticipate the unexpected.

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